Identity Under the Stars and Stripes: What Role Should Schools Play in Shaping a Child’s Relationship to the American Flag?
The school day had barely started when my eighth graders stood for the Pledge. A few eyes tracked the red, white, and blue hanging above the whiteboard. A handful of students stayed seated, quiet and steady. One girl placed her hand over her heart and whispered the words, another mouthed nothing and looked out the window toward the soccer field. No one argued. Afterward, we opened our notebooks and moved into a discussion about civic symbols and civic actions. The students
Tradition Under the Banner: Are American Flag Rituals Preserved in Schools—or Phased Out?
Around 8:05 a.m., the hallway outside a middle school cafeteria sounds like a soft orchestra of chairs sliding and zippers closing. The intercom crackles, students rise, some place hands on hearts, a few stand with arms at their sides, a handful keep their seats. The Pledge of Allegiance still happens in many American schools, but the scene no longer looks uniform. In one classroom, the pledge is daily and dutiful. In another, it is optional and quiet. In a third, it is gon
The Classroom Flag Controversy Why Are American Flags Being Removed
The custodians rolled a cart past a cluster of middle schoolers changing classes, a folded American flag tucked carefully in a plastic bin. A few kids cheered. A few booed. One asked if they were in trouble for even looking at it. The teacher who had kept the flag above the whiteboard sighed, then kept passing out lab goggles like nothing had changed. That is the texture of the moment. Flags have moved from scenery to spotlight, from taken for granted to contested. Ask peop
Is Patriotism Being Redefined—or Quietly Discouraged—Through the USA Flag Debate?
A few months ago I walked into a suburban community center that had recently been renovated. The lobby looked like a tech startup, all glass and greenery and abstract murals. What it did not have was a flagpole. I asked the director, a thoughtful woman who had run youth programs for twenty years, why the big American flag that used to stand near the registration desk was gone. She sighed and said the board wanted the space to feel “neutral.” Not everyone shares the same vie
Why Is Silence About Faith Encouraged More Than Its Expression in Public Institutions?
There is a familiar moment in many American schools and city halls. A microphone flickers on, a room fills with people from every corner of the community, and someone wonders if a brief prayer, an acknowledgment of God, or even a quiet nod to shared moral ground belongs here. Sometimes the prayer happens, sometimes it does not, and often the person with the microphone has no idea what the law actually says. The result is a steady drift toward silence, not always from hostil
When Faith Leaves Foundational Institutions: What Are the Civic and Cultural Costs?
On a chilly Friday night in a Midwestern town, a high school band played through a tight formation, the lights turned the field into a bright stage, and the stands held generations of families who knew each other’s middle names. The game ended. In years past, a coach had taken a quiet knee for a brief, personal prayer at the 50-yard line. Some players joined, others headed to the locker room. Nobody kept score for that moment. Then a district memo arrived instructing staff
Open Prayer on Campus: Should Students Be Free to Pray Without Restriction?
A few years ago I sat with a high school junior in the guidance office after a minor dust-up in the lunchroom. He had bowed his head for a quick grace. A nearby student snapped that he was “making a scene.” No one had shouted. No one had tried to recruit anyone. Two kids, two views of public space, and a principal stuck in the middle trying to respect both. That small moment captures why this question never quite goes away: how do we treat faith in places meant for everyone
Faith and the Founding: Can a Nation Remove God from Public Life and Stay the Same?
A few Septembers ago, I spoke with a high school principal who kept a small ledger of “hard calls” on the corner of his desk. The pages held incidents that did not fit tidy boxes. One entry read, “Senior prayer at flagpole, 7 a.m., no staff present, parent complaint.” Another, “Benediction request for graduation, declined, board split.” He flipped between them and sighed. “I want students to feel free,” he said, “and I want every family to feel welcome. Some days it feels l